Discover "Inner beauty"

This is a newspaper article .. really really impressive one. I read it when so ever I feel depressed ... belive me it works!!!!


“When you like yourself, you go beyond the barriers of loneliness”…….. Silver Jade


A year ago, a beautiful woman came to see me. Her husband had been cheating on her and she wanted some advice regarding her future...

Even tough her eyes were dull, shoulders drawn and her face sad; I managed to look beyond that, look beyond her sadness. Did you know that when you go “beyond”, you can create new things? I told her to go look in my bathroom mirror. She came back and I asked her what she saw. “A FOOL” she replied. I told her hat she needed glasses and to go and look again. And again. By the third time she was almost in tears but she managed to acknowledge that she was beautiful!

When we are unhappy, especially in times of extreme trauma, the spirit cracks, even fractures into tiny pieces. In order to put that together, you need to start filling piece by piece. No one in this world can make you happy.

You need to like urself and achieve happiness from within. Nothing can bring happiness in u except u. your lover or husband or parents can add to that happiness. However, they cannot initiate the feeling...

How many times have you said or heard the words: I will be happy if... And follows the… if I win a million, if my husband is less grumpy, if I meet lover.

Our happiness is based on conditions. Not so. Happiness is the emotion that produces little tingly sensations in the brain. That is why chocolate uplifts the spirit. The brain sees it as happy food and soon you feel better!!!!!

In order to really like yourself, you need to embrace your good points and divide your bad points into two groups. There is a group of bad points that you can change and one that you cannot.

If you are five feet and two inches tall and you do not like it, so sorry, you have to deal with that. No miracle can turn you into six-footer. There are things in life that you cannot change. In order to be happy, you need to accept them and learn to live with it.

If you do not like it when it rains, and become all depressed, you need to see the depression is triggered by a symptom. No use treating the symptom if the cause is not fixed. You need to go “beyond” the symptoms to find and fix the cause.

Change what you can and look at what you cannot change from a different angle. Did you realize that being short has its own advantages? Look “beyond” the physical, emotional and the mind. See the perfection of your spirits. If the spirit is allowed to shine through, your emotions and thoughts will lighten and you will feel happier.

Nothing is impossible. “Nothing” does not exist. Therefore, you need to accept that all things are possible. No one is just good or bad. If you do not have bad points, there is imbalance, because the YOU as focal point needs good and bad in order to show the balance. Even the most successful people have weakness.

You are with YOU every year, every hour and every second. I did not say that I like your bad points; I said “I like YOU”. Like yourself. Soon you will relax and start looking at the things you do not like, changing what you can and accepting what you cannot. That is when miracle occurs. When you like yourself you go “beyond” the barriers of loneliness. Your appearance changes, even if you did nothing to make it look different on the outside. People will be drawn to you. Your boss, your friends... Everyone will recognize your talents.

This is because when you do so, you have a vibration of being content. You will be happy. When you are happy, it just reflects on your face. Having yourself as a best friend has advantages. You cannot lie to yourself. You can be kind to yourself. You will not be lonely because in balance, you will not mind times when you are on your own.

Trust yourself and have faith in the Creator. You are not here by coincidence. Go beyond and see how being YOU, can change your life and others.

That beautiful young women did all these things. Soon her eyes sparkled and she was even lovelier than before. Her shimmering spirit and kind nature drew lots of friends to her. At one stage she even had a choice of men wanting to be with her all the time! She chose one. She shares her secret of inner and outer beauty. She is her own best friend and she really likes herself.

Be YOU. Like whom you are. Trust who you are. You have to be happy for yourself. If you find it hard, look for someone to help you achieve that. Enjoy discovering your inner beauty!